These things, we must let the children know – Sohu maternal and child ca1871

These things, must let the child know – mother is considered as the Sohu maternal child growth process to give them necessary to encourage the role of a mother and father, the role is not the same. In most families, the main role of the mother plays help children solve the difficulties in life, which makes many women feel confused. "The book I’ve read tells me that children need to be like that." A mother told me: "it makes me feel like I’ve never done enough. Sometimes I feel like I’ve been squeezed out of a dishwasher, but I still want to do everything for my kids." However, what the child needs is not the same. The mother must consider what the child really needs. I have worked with hundreds of thousands of mothers and children made tens of thousands of talk and see the research data on childcare, extracted from the essence of what children need most to get there from some points for their mother’s toil. (a) to cultivate their love of mothers is necessary to explain to the children courteous and academic sports and the way of getting along with people to rise above the common herd equally important. Those who get some training of the child will have the psychologist Daniel said in the emotional aspects of emotional intelligence, which needs coordination of ourselves and others, these people have more opportunities than others in the way ahead in life. A series of surveys conducted by the Baer lab show that the engineers who are rich in achievement are not necessarily the most intelligent, but those who can communicate well with their colleagues. Mothers usually develop their dating skills. A colleague told me that when he was a child, he had difficulty in making friends. When a teammate was injured, the friend’s mother insisted that he make a phone call to ask the boy how to feel. "Mom," my friend objected, "he doesn’t even know who I am." "He’ll know." His mother answered. The call marks the beginning of a close friendship. "My mother taught me that friendship comes from your concern for others and not to others". My colleague recalled it. (two) more praise and encouragement, we all know that praise can make a miracle, too much criticism will lead to too much blame for their children, so that they are in order to succeed and take some risks. Praise also has the right way and the wrong way. Most of the parents criticized the child can count the total, while in the praise but vague language — "you are a wonderful child" this evaluation will make a moment of glory suddenly disappeared. Therefore, the table should be more specific, rather than "you are brave," rather than "I fell for you after the car is still proud of climbing." This is a clear explanation of why this behavior is worthy of praise. Everyone has a "critical area", this region will receive unexpected results when praised. As a mother, you probably know more about what’s important to your child than anyone else – maybe music, sports, or a class, and if you don’t understand, it’s okay to ask. Secondly, because of the children相关的主题文章: